Another funeral was for someone I had never even met.
I was blessed this year to go to the women's conference. Nikki and Samira along with a fabulous team of women put together the beautiful theme of "submerged in Living water". The decorations were something out of my fantasies as a child and the foot washing at the end of teh prayer walk was heart melting. My favorite though was the communion. There were women I respect from various parts of the Dominican serving the others.
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| Left to right. Griselda (los guandules), Reina (la mosca) Yudi and friend (the hole) 'praying' Modesta (Hato del Yaque), Alexandra (Batey 9), Fior (Via Cafetelera), Tata (Hoya del Caimito and retired DR first lady of GO), Kendy (Hoya del Caimito and present DR first lady of GO) |
The women in the church wait all year for this. They make things to sell in order to pay their way. It very well may be the biggest event in their lives all year save the birth or marriage of a family member.
I roomed with all of the people from Hato del Yaque. One of the ladies was named Lucia. She really hadn't come to church in a long time. Her son, Christian, has been coming on and off since he was a child, but she has never been very consistant.
It was a great opportunity for Lucia to reconnect with the church body and get to know our new Pastor's wife, Modesta.
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| The ladies from the church in Hato del Yaque, La Mina, minus Lucia |
Unfortunatly Lucia received a phonecall during the conference with the news that her mother had died. Once Modesta was able to get me to understand what had happened, we instantly looked for a vehicle to take her to her mother's house where they would be holding the funeral.
As quickly as I could I grabbed my purse and the van keys. Someone asked if they could go with us so that I wouldn't be driving alone. I said "of course" and opened the door. I jumped in the drivers seat and looked in the rearview mirror. What I saw made tears spring to my eyes. Not one person came with us, but the whole entire group of women from two churches in Hato del Yaque came. They prayed and comforted and loved on Lucia all the way to Moca where the house was. They all missed a quarter of their precious conference.
We arrived before any other family. We stayed during the preliminary wailing of Lucia until stronger friends and family arrived.
The thing is... Lucia was not a faithful member of the church. It would have sufficed if the Pastor's wife and maybe one other had went. But thats not how these women do things. The whole group went.
True, I am here to teach and support and help people. But I have so much to learn from these ladies about being a woman of God.
2 Corinthians 6:10
as sorrowful yet always rejoicing, as poor yet making many rich, as having nothing yet possessing all things.
as sorrowful yet always rejoicing, as poor yet making many rich, as having nothing yet possessing all things.
That is a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing.
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Emilio Fernandez Esteban
Avenida Juan de la Cierva, 44
28903 Getafe (Madrid)
Spain
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Yours Sincerely